I just posted about how I trust my BF and now this. (we are both BS's) Boy I wish I could shut off my brain.
Anyway, as you all know BF is a contractor and also flips houses. He is out of state on business and found a foreclosure he would like to flip. He has been working on it and meeting the real estate person today. He told me three days ago while he was looking at the foreclosure that a female cop came by and they struck up a conversation…She works for the Crime prevention unit? (Never heard of such a thing) and told him that the area is okay but she would let him know if she hears or knows of anything (Such as crime, thefts, gang activity, etc.) He never told me that they exchanged phone numbers.
He is coming home tomorrow and told me today that she texted him telling him that if he has any questions to contact her. I was angry; and he kind of knew that but I changed the subject because I know I have trust issues and didn’t want to start a fight. We made the agreement that we be honest with one another and I don't want him to hide things, but I don't want to be another fool either.
I don’t know if he assumed I knew they exchanged numbers when he told me she would keep him posted on things…To me, I would think it is inappropriate for a cop to text him this information. But I am not up on text etiquette. He does give out business cards.
What do you guys think? Am I overreacting??? Thanks and God Bless