So my ex-H and the gf he moved in got married after exactly one year of living together & one year of engagement. They've been married for a few mos. and even though they argue'd before, their arguing seems to have gotten worse --- even though she had told my son that after their dad & her got married, it would "get better". Recently she told my daughter that "the doctor said they should argue once a wk to get it out". I have no clue what that meant, I mean are they in counseling after a few mos. of marriage?! I know one huge fight happened over my ex inviting me to the kids b-day party w/out asking her. She basically told him to un-invite me, but then a few days later text me at 3 a.m. & then again the next day asking me to come --- I guess to appease him...I declined obviously b/c I've tried to stay as far away as possible to any of their drama. He's not marriage material (although I think she's probably even less than he is) and I knew it would be a disaster just like our marriage was. I just don't know how long it's all going to drag out or how much the kids will be exposed to before it's all over? They are both "perfectionists" & "over-achievers" and came together with the premise & idea that a marriage together would somehow be better than the ones they had before with other people --- so, I know they would not want to "fail". In some ways, I wonder if they couldn't go on another 20 years...then I just sort of laugh b/c it doesn't seem like they would be able to make each miserable for that long. Either way --- the stuff she says to and in front of the kids just seems way off --- like trying to "explain" their arguing away. Not to mention some of the other things she's told my daughter - like she won't take her wedding ring off til the day she dies. My daughter also heard her tell my ex about me coming to their b-day party --- "what if you talk to her, more than you talk to me?" I'm like --- they're married now (even tho they will have no kids together b/c he got a vasectomy after our 2) and she wants for them to buy a house together. I guess this is/was all supposed to make her feel more secure --- which she never will b/c my ex will never make a woman feel secure & to top it all off I believe my he pretty much still loves me --- even though he would never admit it. Regardless of that, she's definitely a little off in the head --- which would be great if I had an exH that I had no kids w/....sigh.