My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, it hasn't been the easiest marriage but who's is. Over the last month I have been so jealous for some reason, maybe its because she started working at a haunted house and have a bunch of guys texting her again. I know for a fact that she would never cheat on me even if I would never find out. But for some reason I just kept pushing and pushing, now we are on a trial "separation" and it's killing me I know I brought it on myself and all I've done is hurt her but I want to do everything in my power to get her back. I used to be romantic , spontaneous, and fun then I just became lazy when we had kids I played video games more than I should and spent time on the computer talking to old friends when I should have been paying attention to her. I think this separation is good just because it made me realize who I had become and now I am doing everything in my power to change it for the better, I just hope she is around to be able to enjoy it. We do have two kids that really add onto the stress of our relationship but I think they are one reason we are working so hard to keep it together. We were married at 19 and now we are 24 I want to get rid of my "teenage" sence of mind and make it more adult if we get back together. So pretty much my question is, am I beyond help? Should I save her heart from the pain and just let her go, god knows I dont want to but I just want her to be happy. I will change though I need to change if not for her for my kids because even over the last week since I've been trying I have finnaly been happy with how I feel and who I am.