i'm a happily married woman, we're in our mid 30's. we have a group of friends that have met mostly throgh our kid's school. so we're all in the same boat, roughly the same age and with kids. we've all become pretty tight. close friends of ours recently held a party to break in their new sauna. we had a nice dinner, then sent the kids to the toy room while we had drinks and relaxed.

after a few drinks we decided to try out the sauna. we stripped down and covered ourselves with towels and went in. i was sitting across from the married host of the party, and could catch glimpses of his "package" as his towel shifted when he moved/uncrossed his legs, etc. i likely would have never noticed except for the incredible lenght and width. it hung down nearly to his knee and was as thick as a soda can. i couldn't stop stealing glances, and found myself getting very aroused.

that night my husband and i made love (while i thought about what i saw earlier in the day) and he was none the wiser. the problem is that i find myself fantasizing about this other man a lot now, and we happen to spend a great deal of time together volunteering at my daughter's school. we have been flirting more openly, and it makes me wonder if him showing me was an accident or not...

at any rate, i've since introduced larger toys into our bedroom and have had a hard time being satisfied by my husband, who's average length/girth. i love him dearly, but my infatuation with this other man's package is getting the best of me, i'm feeling very dangerously tempted... 

would love any advice or to hear if other couples have had similar experiences/issues.