I'm a female and I've been in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 years. It has been amazing, we went through so much crazy stuff together and made it through. We both lost our jobs and for the past few months we've been fighting alot. Well this past weekend she just completely cut me off. Absolutely nothing. She said she can't take it anymore. I don't understand how she can just toss me out of her life so quickly. I've contacted mutual friends who don't really know whats happening. I spoke to her mom, who said she's completely done with me. I spoke to her sister, who said she still loves me and to give her time. I read in a couple of relationship books, that the longer we go without talking the worse it will be. The first day, I did blow up her phone to try to get in touch. She didn't respond.
I have no idea how she feels but I am absolutely broken. I can't eat, can't sleep. I tried to focus on me - college, joined the gym, dance classes...but I can't get my mind to concentrate.