My boyfriend has a fantasy of a threesome. We have discussed it at length. Neither of us has ever done anything like that before, but we are both very turned on by the idea. We are both professionals in our town, so we must be very very discreet.
We have discussed hiring a stripper to come to our home and do a private show, preferably a stripper who might allow some touching for the right tip. That way, we can have some contact and see how we feel about it without jumping all the way into a threesome. For example, it would allow me to see how I feel about another woman turning him on with me watching and how I would feel about another woman trying to turn me on.
Has anyone ever hired a stripper? If so, how do you find one? We live over 2 hours away from a strip club. Further, because of the discretion issue, we would feel more comfortable if the stripper came to us and did a private show. Also, once you find a stripper, what is an appropriate tip for the stripper and what kind of "extras" will a stripper do (body shots, etc.) and what kind of tip do you pay the stripper for those extras?