TO ALL-

I just wanted to know what people here think of sex surrogates. I think for most conditions they treat, they're unnecessary.

Older virgins need to learn how to lower anxiety, to learn dating skills, and to confront misconceptions. A regular cognitive behavioral therapist helps with this. Also, I think it would be better to be the first time with someone who genuinely cares and isn't on the clock, especially for women. For premature ejaculation in men and inability to orgasm in women, practice by oneself often works to correct the problem with a partner. I don't know enough about treating other conditions, but I also sense one doesn't need a surrogate.

I have seen photos and videos of male surrogates and they seem sleazy to me. Years ago, I thought of using a female surrogate. (I'm male) I spoke with one over the phone and she was bitchy. That dissuaded me from pursuing the idea further.

The number of sex surrogates in the USA has fallen dramatically since the 1970's. Many remaining female surrogates are over 60 years old. It has fallen out of favor in general. However, there has been a recent movie with Helen Hunt generating a buzz and also a higher percentage of clients are female than in the past.

So, what do other people think?