I already can't stand her boyfriend... now I find out that he pissed his mother off and she smacked him (or according to him, she punched him in the face), and he pushed her down (he pushed her hard enough to knock her down). I also found out a couple of weeks ago when my daughter was out with loverboy (wans't supposed to be with him, it was supposed to be a girls night only), they got into a fight and he screamed in her face... literally right in her face in front of everyone. This is abusive behavior as far as I'm concerned and I'm pretty sure if my daughter doesn't get out of the relationship now (they are both age 15), he will eventually strike her. He says he would never hurt her, but how I see it, if he can be abusive like that toward his own mother, and has already been verbally abusive with my dd, then what's next? I don't want to wait and see. And my daughter is already making excuses, just like a battered woman would.
Not sure who's read my previous posts here, or who may remember, my dd and this boy had sex for the first time a few months back, in my home. She's always been a good kid, but has since slacked in school, lost some of her good girlfriends since being with him, and our relationship is struggling big time since being with him (they have been together for a few months past a year). She lies to me, her grades in school have been terrible this school year so far, and now this crap. I'm at a loss once again.