Not sure if anyone still remembers me, I was here in 2008, 2009... I have not been here for the past few years actually, so much so that I have forgotten my log in name!
Anyway I'm Jane my d-day was 06 Aug 2008 (If I'm not wrong, Thomas (pater_familia) was 05 Aug right? I remember you reached out to me so many times, thank u so much!) I was married for barely a year when my husband had an affair, I had a son.
We rebuilt our marriage. My husband is so much better now, and my marriage and communication has also improved. We have moved houses, started new jobs, actively practisiing our religion.... and we also have a daughter to add to the brood now :) She's reaching one year old soon.
I got back here because a couple of days back, we bumped into the OW, and suddenly the pain all appeared again, and I remembered this board and you guys. My husband ignored the OW, she kept staring at us (we were at a restaurant) and it was all really awkward and painful for me. It's amazing how, despite it being almost 4 years, the pain can still appear so fresh and so deep.
How are you, Pater_familia? Myradorn? I remember you all so fondly, you really did save my marriage and my sanity. And for that, thank yous are just not enough.
Heal well, everyone. We will all reach a better place soon, just work through the pain and take care :)