I'm 33, single mom of a 5yr old and I would like to get back into dating. My problem is I am shy, unexperience with men,I don't know how to speak to them,and I get extremely nervous. So, I tried a dating site (bpm.com) hoping I can start from there and see where it takes me. But no luck. The only men who contact me are much older man, creepy crawly's,those with too many children and those interested in just plain sex. That's not what am looking for as a first impression. Also, I haven't written a profile because I don't know where/how to start and I don't think many read it. Am I being to picky......? What are your suggestions?