I really need help here. I'm 18 years old and I'm living with my boyfriend. He's 21. I love him but I can't be here anymore. I don't get to see my family or my old friends. I've lived here for 6 months. I never EVER went anywhere without him besides the doctors and work. Well, I went out once last saturday with some new friends I made at work. He got to go out so why could I? He cut himself up and destroyed our room. He threw things everywhere. He even drank almost a whole bottle of rum. He's really helped me out of a pinch but now I feel like I'm trapped in a bigger one. How do I tell him I want to move out? How do I take my things with me? How do I get my family to help? What do I do about my job? Should I worry about him self harming himself when I leave? Or should I not care? I need answers quick, please!!