Recently, my SO asked me would I be ok if he went to visit his ex and her family while he is on vacation from work. He says they are real good friends only. I haven't met her due to the fact that she lives out of state. He has told her about me. To say the least, I am shocked that this was even something for him to consider. I told him to go if he wants to. I felt if he was bold enough to ask me could he go, I should be bold enough to let him go. I did tell him that he knows how to act and if he mess up things are over for us. Would you let your SO visit an ex?