My wife(10yrs+) and I have spiced it up gradually over the years. First dirty talk during sex, then I got her to touch herself during sex, then mutual masturbation, phone calls, pics over cell phone followed by the latest. While she was showering, I stroked myself on video on phone, took out her box of toys, placed the phone next to her with the video paused. I left the door cracked and watched her from hallway, while she proceeded to use her toy.
Anyone else have a story to tell?