I had a fight with my sister because she is a drama queen and was calling me every day to listen to drama. Even though I try to change the subject, she goes back to drama again.
I told her “We can talk about other topics” But she is not interested in that. I got mad with her one day, unfortunately I shouted to her. Then she got mad and shouted to me for several phone calls.
I know she is depressed, but I`m also struggling with some issues and she seems to don´t want or is unable to get better.
She tried to make pace with me and now that “the peace” has been established. She doesn´t call, if I call her she says she has called but doesn´t leave a message and then she starts complaining again. Or she says “I haven´t called you, because to tell you just about problems, no”.
I have the feeling that this is a kind of trap. Like saying “If you want to talk with me, you have to listen to drama”.