Hello everyone. Last December, my husband asked me for a separation. Dec. 5th to be exact. A week later, he goes to a club and exchanges numbers with the bartender. They texted for two weeks, went to the movies, met up at Mcdonalds, all in a two week period before I found out, the day after Christmas. Except I only saw they had texted the night before, I didn't know about the lenght of time or them going out. He lied and said she texted him out of the blue, he didn't really know her. A week later, New Years Eve, I checked his phone records because I had a gut feeling that he was lying. And sure enough, I saw that this had been going on for two weeks. When I confronted him, he claimed they were just friends. He said they were leaning on each other because they were both going through problems and that it was strickly friendly. Now we hadn't actually separated. I was still living in the house. We even had sex a couple of times. There was distance between us, but we never really separated. So I chose to believe him. I asked him if they had gone out anywhere and he said no, it was just texting. So fast forward to now, I have actually become friends with the girl. And she tells me they went to the movies and met up at Mcdonalds during that time. But nothing happened. If nothing happened between them two, if it was just "friendly", why did he lie to me about everything? Now I'm back to feeling anxiety and depression. I can't move on because I don't know what to believe. Help anyone?