I have an older friend, about 15 or so years older, to whom I'm attracted very much because of his manliness. Well, I thought so anyway. He got it into his head that he'd like me to "dominate" him. For example, right away he brought me all sorts of "Dom lingerie" and implements, including a harness and tool outfit that makes him, he says, go nuts when I wear it. It's not just looking at me either. He asked me to do all sorts of things, which I did, of course, they were harmless enough, and I admit I enjoyed some things and did get excited enough to be satisfied, but to be honest, I am not the Dominating Type, I guess. I'd rather he were more like the man I thought I initially was attracted to. I can guess how far this dom thing might go since we're neither married nor is he hurting for money; now he's talking about having another threesome (we've had several already) and, worse, my playing a real bitch with him (I'll let you imagine) whereas, truly, at heart I just want to love and take care of someone, not play a role for hours of a mean mean nasty woman who likes cheating on someone and hurting them. If he weren't so obsessive about it. If once in awhile were okay, then he'd find me willing to do all sorts of things new and different, but I can't stand his unrelenting insistence. I'm about to tell him it's over and to get lost. I wonder if any other person has experienced this kind of thing?