Good morning!  

I was in a relationship with a man for about a year and a half.  I broke up with him about 4 months ago.  I began dating a new guy about 2 months ago.  Recently, the ex and I have been communicating often and re-establishing a healthy relationship.  He has put forth a lot of effort and I know he is very much in love with me.  He says he wants to be with me forever.  

Pros for the ex include: stability, he's VERY attractive, identical views on politics and religion, very supportive of career and provides motivation, our sex is amazing.

Cons for the ex include: he's snobby, selfish, not close to his family and doesn't enjoy time with mine, he is sometimes percived as pompous by others, we have a history of consistent arguements. 

The other guy is a great guy too.  Our relationship is still very new and I don't want to base my decision about rekindling things with the ex on my relationship with him, but it does have some weight.  He's a really really nice guy and very different from the ex.

Please advise if I should consider trying things again with the ex.  I am so torn.  Friends and family have too biased of opinions.