I was in a relationship with a man for about a year and a half. I broke up with him about 4 months ago. I began dating a new guy about 2 months ago. Recently, the ex and I have been communicating often and re-establishing a healthy relationship. He has put forth a lot of effort and I know he is very much in love with me. He says he wants to be with me forever.
Pros for the ex include: stability, he's VERY attractive, identical views on politics and religion, very supportive of career and provides motivation, our sex is amazing.
Cons for the ex include: he's snobby, selfish, not close to his family and doesn't enjoy time with mine, he is sometimes percived as pompous by others, we have a history of consistent arguements.
The other guy is a great guy too. Our relationship is still very new and I don't want to base my decision about rekindling things with the ex on my relationship with him, but it does have some weight. He's a really really nice guy and very different from the ex.
Please advise if I should consider trying things again with the ex. I am so torn. Friends and family have too biased of opinions.