Ever since elementary when I first was taught that drinking, smoking, and drugs were bad from the school system and my parents I NEVER have done it.
Once I had entered the dating scene way back when in high school I dated guys on and off and had relationships come and go. None of those guys ever drank, smoked, or done drugs except one who smoked weed behind my back but after him the other guys didnt do those things.
Then I met my most recent ex of 1 year ago he did drink BUT after talking to me and meeting me he stopped cold turkey never drinking again. Until he was hanging with his friends and fell back into it after having us date for 2 years.
He dropped the bump and told me he was drinking behind my back I hated him for it because he broke the bond of how he stopped because of me, he had admired me and how I didn't do that stuff.
Now being single for 1 year I entered the dating scene again and have dated on and off yet again. I have wanted to date someone who is like me doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs, but every time I do find a guy who has these things they never talk to me or we never talk for a long time that they end up disppearing altogether.
So now this NEW guy and I have been talking on and off BUT he drinks and smokes socially sometimes but he says he will stop IF he has a good rational arugment as to why it is so BAD etc.
To me I think drinking, smoking, and drugs are all bad because of these reasons;
They make you violet, stupid, unhealthy, sick, addictive, addicting, addiction, emotionally distaught, just causes a lot of problems overall.
But what can I say that will get him to stop altogether?