So, I've been casually seeing this guy for over a year. We started out hot and heavy then broke down to barely talking. Then one night he asked me out again and we started talking more. But weeks and sometimes months would pass without any contact other than a good morning text here and there. But lately for the last 2 months its been pretty steady. We really have gotten to know each other now although we haven't met Parents we have met each others closest friends. He lives alone and has people over a lot so he always tells me to invite my friends over when his friends are there. Lately I've been over there quite a bit around his friends that they call me his girlfriend and he doesn't say anything. One invited us over for thanksgiving to come as a couple. He always sits by me and holds my hand or has his hand on my back or leg. He always asks if I'm having fun and he never does anything without making sure I'm ok with it. He told me he had feelings for me and once he hugged me and said "you know I love you girl". He's 10 years older than me in his early 40's and has been married twice and says he's not sure he can trust again. But we spend every chance we get together and hates when I leave. he says he's not seeing anyone else but he won't commit to a relationship. He compliments me a lot and says I do things for him that no other female has ever done. he also does things for me that I would expect only a boyfriend to do. He calls me pet names in front of our friends like dear, darlin, and doll. But I don't want to put my heart out there to be hurt. he said he never wants to hurt me. But where can this go if he don't commit? I don't want to be stuck in limbo with him forever but Im not interested in seeing someone else. Or could he need more time to decide?