I know that I'm not exactly on the right board, but the other one wasn't working for me so I came here. I'm sure I will get just as much insight as I would on the other.
This is pretty simple. SO watches porn on occassion, and sometimes we both watch it together. His porn thing wouldn't bother me at all except for one thing............. I think he has an obsession with black women.
I am not racist at all, my first two children are bi-racial. SO and I are white. Here lately, any porn he watches when I'm NOT home is all black women and when we watch it we rarely see black women. He likes rap, hip-hop music videos and that also has quite a bit of black women showing A LOT. Then when I sit here and think about all of this, I have noticed when we are out shopping or something his eyes steer towards black women also. He seems to prefer chunkier-big busted ladies. I am also a chunkier busty woman, but maybe not as busty as he would like (DD's).
So my question here really is if I should become concerned or shake it off? I am pregnant with my 4th child and maybe, like I said, am just acting way too suspicious and not thinking right but it really does have me concerned right now. I can't help but think he would rather be with a black woman. I have to mentioned any of this to him and not sure if I should.
Thank you for reading.