My son, since high school has lacked motivation in anything. He barely graduated high school. He has refused to get a job. We were on the verge of kicking him out, but instead "forced" him to go to community college and tried to help him get a job. He dropped all of his classed (of course after the refund date--so we were out the tuition). He has lied about getting/keeping a job. He is now turning 20, and has not progressed at all in bettering his life. I think he has worked a total of 2 months his whole life (which was a job he got because I filled out an online application for him). Would you kick him out, even if it meant he may be homeless? He is causing a great deal of stress on the rest of the family...drugs are suspected, but not confirmed....and I just don't see it get any better.