Is this an issue for others as well?  We M/C recently and have now been green lit.  Funny how it's not that easy as the doctors saying go for gold when you get home.  Emotions, life, etc.  

Hubby is apprehensive and I'm running out of time at 40.    Talking about it feels like I'm convincing him.  He says he's not against trying again, which I am thankful.   But....words and actions are two different things.  I think he is scared.  As am I, but I want this so bad.  I feel that I let so much time slip by already and just lost 3 months by M/C.  We have a wonderful marriage and I feel so bad about pressuring him.  

How do you deal with this...this cannot be a unique situation.  I'm interested at others thoughts and feelings of both spouses.

I have no children (hopefully yet) so this is very important to me....