My cousin, 12 years junior to me, just had her baby yesterday...and she took my baby name. Yep, so 2 weeks after my due date from the m/c, she has a healthy little girl named Madalene, after my grandmother. What makes it worse is that my dh and i have been trying for 2 years, married for 6, both work hard and have built a life for ourselves and are ready for a family. She got knocked up by a guy who was separated from his wife, and can't marry her b/c she'll lose her medicaid status. She has never held a job, is completely supported by her parents, and had no problem at all conceiving (this is her 2nd child - my aunt and uncle made her give the 1st up for adoption - btw, the father was a different guy). I know this is not the child's fault and that my cousin didn't take the name on purpose, but man, I don't understand the universe with this one. Ugh. Thanks for letting me rant.