Welcome to Tweenerville!
And it's been a bumpy ride for you...I know. Limited contact...I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Working closely with/or even in the same vicinity of an xaffair partner has to be the absolute pits and it so much more of an effort to stay the course...and really impedes recovery. But, you've been doing it.
Two more weeks now and he's gone, right?
I'm really sorry you've had so much trouble accessing the Boards. I miss your presence and solid advice and the support and encouragement you've extended to others.
Here are your well-deserved Tweener Wings. May they assist you over the next couple of weeks and fly you back here for Super Tweenerville.
the biggest (((((((HUG))))))) I can muster without squeezing the life out of you.