Am I being petty by not giving my son a gift plus he almosts never gets me amything but manages to buy for his friends and co workers. For the first time in the 29 years he has been in world I have always gave him gifts for xmas. I don't know if I am acting petty or not, I have alway brought him a I gift and now not shopping for him a gift based on his ill treatment of me I can;t bring myself to buy him anything. After all what do you buy for someone who is not speaking to you? Gifts should come from the heart and I am just not feeling it at al.