Ok, so I'm really curious about how everyone handles this! We are hopefully preparing for an IVF in Feb. and I am petrified that my husband will not be able to perform on the day of the retreival. He often has performance anxiety and always has produced at home for SA's and our previous IUI's. The IVF will be done at a new clinic about an hour away and clearly producing at home is not an option. Do all clinics allow freezing ahead of time for those situations? Any words of advice on how NOT to be a control freak about this?!