I have an issue where I think that I am in love with my male co-worker one day I jut woke up with all these feelings for him not sure where they came from as I never had thought about him or even noticed him. I started chating with him a few weeks ago but, they are usualy short converstations. Just recently at a Christmas party he kept looking over at me when he was with his wife. I was talking to my female co-worker at the time and her boyfriend having a good time. She noticed that he kept looking over our way and said that he must be shy to come over to talk. I didn't know what to do because he was there with his wife and having all all of these feelings for him. During the dinner I couldn't help but to look over and caught him looking at me while drinking his beer. I was thinking maybe he was still to shy to come over to talk so, eventually I made my way over. We have a good very quick converstation he introced me to his wife and I was quickly cut off by the speaker. So, I ran back to my seat. I made my way over one more time to see if they were coming to dance he spoke for the both of them that they were thinking about it. So, the rest of the night I just had a good time. I catch them leaving by the elevator but, didn't say anything nor did they notice. They we talking no PDA. My female co-worker mentioned that they didn't really seem together. I'm not sure. Since then we just said "hey" but, that's a bout it. He walked by the office one and caught him looking at me from the corner of his eye.
I just don't know what to do at this point. I want to tell him how I feel as it's driving me crazy but, I don't want to tell him too soon and have him say that he doesn't have feelings for me. I feel that I should just keep waiting at the next meeting to see if he looks at me again. Should I tell him how I feel or just try to get over these feelings that I don't know where they came from? It not the end of the world if he doesn't feel the same way just not sure why my heart would start something?