I just found out that my husband has been having an affair. Like that wasn't bad enough, shes also having his baby. She tortures me with it. She has even called and asked for morning sickness advice. Shes crazy. I live in a small town and it was put on a gossip forum which means I can't even grieve privately. She already has four children under 5 years old and her tubes were supposed to be tied. Turns out she lied and wanted to trap my husband into a relationship with her. At first, she wanted an abortion. When my husband told her that he didn't want to leave me, she flipped out and decided to keep it just to ruin us. Her words exactly. I don't know where to go from here. I don't excuse him for what he's done to our family. He has moved out and my son who is autistic is not dealing well. I feel so lost. Any good advice would be appreciated.