My spouse and family really get me feeling down about my decision to be a SAHM. He keeps pressuring me to go back to work, but I feel very strongly about our daughter being raised by others, be it family or friends. And his family not respecting my decisions or the way I choose to raise our baby is infuriating. His grandmother lives in close proximity, whom raised multi generations. Even before I gave birth there's been this almost expectation that I would go back to work and she would become basically our child's primary caretaker. I feel like I was expected to pop our daughter out and hand her over. I mean literally not 30 min after giving birth, and trying to bond in the delivery room was his g'ma barging in trying to delegate when we should let visitors in. Sorry for ranting, but I still carry resentment over that. I guess I just need to vent. But I don't know what to do. Our daughter is now almost six months, and I want to raise her. Anyone else experience this sort of thing with in laws?