I think that I belong in the 1ww and testing. Af showed in the middle of december for an exxtended stay. Like 9 days to be exact. And I have really been "not" trying to ttc because I get all crazy and dh gets incredably turned off by the whole thing when I'm all like we can't do it that way, no we have to wait another day before bd'n. I really dnt believe I would get a bfp if I tested. I have had short cramps on and off the last few days. But a gal can stay hopeful!