I am in dire need of advice right now. What do you do when xap who is almost twice my age and married 4 times fishes constantly even though you ignore the bait. I have been really sick lately and still working so I have to go outside. Well he came out the other day saying you sound so sick the cold is in your core and sound sad for me and I just walk away. He knows what he is doing thats the scary part and I know this. It has been be two years in March since I ended it. I said somethings that might have him really angered him and hurt his pride mostly his pride. and it was the truth of course! In it I told him to leave me alone in a not so nice context. I avoided him heavily because I knew what I said in the letter would make him very angry and I didn't want to face xap. In the end I did, I had to and he told me could not live like with me hating him and that he was not moving or going anywhere. Things got worse and worse. The worst episode was when I was doing laundry he took a bull whip out in public and started snapping it at me and saying run long child go do your laundry woman. I was appaled but I dont think he will hurt me but I dont know. Why cant he let me go? I went to the cops and tried to get a restraining order on him and I couldn't because I didn't have any evidence that he did something to harm me. Everytime I see him he smiles and tries to interact with me and I keep ignoring. I know there is something wrong with him it is just creepy.Any advice would be appreciated thanx.
Peace, Love Andie