Husband and I have been having problems for over a year and have been working on our marriage . Or so I thought.
His boss is a single woman who I thought was a friend of mine. They have crazy jobs that are not really 9-5 monday-friday. They both work around the clock.
He is constantly on his phone when he is at home. Recently, I started looking at our phone records to find out who he is texting and found out that he has been texting back and forth with his boss. This is happening at all hours of the day and night. Examples: 32 texts between 3:30pm and 11pm on Christmas, 23 texts between 8pm and 11:30pm on my birthday (while I was playing with the kids and he was "working" downstairs) and 45 texts this past Saturday between 7pm and 11:30pm. Saturday when he should have been spending time bonding with this family...
In total, they have sent/receieved 316 text messages between 12/16 and 1/6. I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous!!! I know the nature of their jobs but there is no reasonable explaination for texting damn near all night every night of the week.
How can you work on your marriage when you and texting your boss during the time you should be reconnecting with your wife and spending time with your kids?? Am I justified in my anger and feelings of betrayal?