We have a bit of a dilemma going on with my dh's ex. She wants their daughter to join a travel soccer league team, rather than the local youth league that she's been playing in. It will require a lot more money than what we've been spending, for uniforms, tournaments, etc. and I really don't see the point. I feel that the ex should fork over the extra funds if she's set on doing this, the sd is just fine with staying with the youth league. I think her mom is really pushing her to be this big soccer player that she really doesn't care to be. I'm also tired of her asking us to fork over the money without us having an input beforehand. Grr!