I just found this site and I am pretty impressed that you can ask questions and get advice from people. I need to ask something that I can't ask my other friends because I need honest opinions. I have a friend who just met this man who is the brother of a girl I work with. I am really good friends with my coworker and with the friend who is seeing her brother. My friend really likes the brother and things are progressing rapidly. She has herpees and she has not told men in the past because she thinks they will think she is a whore if they find out. I personally do not think it is fair for her to do this and I want to tell my coworker so she can tell her brother but everyone keeps telling me it is none of my business. I think it is my business if I can help prevent him from having a disease. I would not let a friend walk in front of a bus so why would I keep quiet about this? What would you do?