I have been married for 14 months now and I am at wits end and don't know what to do. My husband's mother is causing so much stress between the two of us. She is just as nice as she can be but her constant suggestions of how we should do this and that and all her "help" is just too much. For instance, hubby got a speeding ticket a few months ago and I thought he should take care of it or at least let me do it but instead he gave all the information to his mother and she took care of it. We can't buy anything without getting her approval and if she doesn't like something then that's that. She calls three times a day and if I mention that I am going to cook something, she tries to tell me how to cook it. I find myself so resentful of his mother. He says I am jealous. Am I?