Everything - everything!!! is a problem with DH. Nothing I say is right. He gets mad at me for no reason. I can't ask him to do a SINGLE thing without him getting mad. Then he holds it against me and attacks me at every turn. We had a great talk this weekend. I thought we had reconciled a lot of things... then today, he threw something back in my face that we had (or so I thought) worked through! It's like he WANTS to fight with me...
but then he does the whole martyr thing, "Why does everything have to be a fight?"
Because he MAKES it a fight!
I don't know how much more I can take. I am tired of his anger. I'm tired of his hatred and venom being spewed at me every time he doesn't get his way.
Today he accused me of being angry that he had money in his wallet. WHAT?!?! That came from NO WHERE. I never said a single thing about him having money! I knew he had cash from a small bonus he got at Christmas time. I was glad he had it. I thought it was good for him to have some cash in his wallet. He never gets to have cash. Then today I asked him if he could put $20 in the bank because he had gone out to lunch and spent some of the money in the bank that I'd been saving to get my car fixed. I didn't have enough, so I asked him if he could put $20 in there. HE FLIPPED out at me. That's when he said I hate the fact that he has cash. What?!?!
I am just about done.
I don't know what to do. I can't even stay out of his way, because he seeks me out to fight with me. He hates me. I know he does.