I used to be a member about 6 years ago and this board helped me a lot at that time, now I am back again. A little background, my husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 15 years now with no success. I was able to get pregnant for the 1st time in 2007, but sadly lost the baby at 12weeks, then nothing for 4 years. Got pregnant again in August of 2011 and did not make it past 7 weeks. We have been trying diligently to get pregnant again. We have done all the rounds of fertility drugs and IUI's, everything short of IVF. I am 34 and he is 36. Doctors have found nothing wrong with either of us other than my husband has a slightly low sperm count. We are heading toward IVF this summer. We have yet to find a doctor that can help us. We have been through numerous over the years. We have been to several specialists and I am beginning to feel that it is hopeless, that we will never be parents and I spend most of my time crying and depressed because of it.
All of the trying and frustration has been weighing heavily on me lately and just need someone to talk to that knows of the struggles of trying to concieve. Everyone keeps saying "Don't give up, It will happen", but all of these people with good intentions have children and have never had the problem of getting pregnant, so I am just feeling down right now and know how helpful this site was for me during my miscarriages and needed an ear. Sorry to drag on so.
Thanks for listening.