I am an avid gym goer, wherever in the world I am I go to the gym, daily, unless I am dying. Love to do the cardio machines, weights, group classes, spin, yoga, zumba, what have you - its my endorphin fix and I have to get it. Also the sauna and stuff is the little treat I give myself for working so hard. Alright that said, it now comes down to this one trainer who I realized pays attention to me. He is subtle, that I hand him, but he sure looks out for me, searches me out in the gym and either works out around where I am, or does his personal training lessons close to wherever in the gym I am working out. I am highly amused. We women know when a man notices us. He is younger than I am, he is cute, and I wonder why at all he has any fascination me whatsoever. I am married, my husband is with me at the gym at least 50% of times, we sometimes workout together, talk to each other, help each other out - so its obvious we are together. But our dear gym instructor persists with his amusing ways of staying in my vicinity, hanging around, stealing glances, making it obvious, and making me a bit conscious now. What amuses me is that not only am I older, I am very plain!! I am not exactly out of shape - but I am not the shapeliest, slimmest, best looking body in the gym - there are so many younger, prettier girls. But unmistakably, he is right on target everytime. So much so, when I enter, other gym instructors - his friends - start smiling at him and make it even more obvious. I like the attention, I just shrug and smile at all this, I find it a flattering that such a fine man finds me intriguing. There was this time he was doing his pull ups - he is very muscular - he was waiting to make sure he was in my field of vision and then with a direct eye contact he went on to workout - looking marvellous off course. I shook my head (in my mind). Such an obvious display of manhood (show off)... I wanted to get up and applaud. I know a bit about animal mating rituals, the peacock shows off his lovely feathers to the pea-hen and dances around her to impress her :-). Here was one pretty peacock, unfurling his beautiful brawn. I know a bit about psychology, I am a physician and I am 40 and I am highly tickled that a man as beautiful, fit and young as him, manages to waste his attention on an uninterested, married, older but highly amused woman as me. What I like even more is that he is shy and always keeps a respectful distance, never makes unnecessary eye contact and is subtle. He knows I realize he notices me, so now its become a game, one he and I both enjoy without doing or wanting to do anything more about it. Amazing human behavior.