A close friend of mine just found out she's pregnant (of course by accident). After telling me about the pregnancy, she mentioned that she was very excited at the prospect of me hosting her baby shower. Granted, I haven't mentioned to her that I'm ttc myself, so she wouldn't think anything of the request, but I'm just unsure what to do. I was noncommital when responding, because I'm just not sure if I'll be able to handle it if I'm still not pregnant in sixth months or so. On the other hand, what if I am? I don't want to hurt her feelings, I am happy for her just sad for myself. What would you do?