Where to begin..My life was suddenly turned upside down this week. On Wednesday I found out my husband was having an affair by my neighbors husband. Yes, my husband was have an affair with my neighbor, who I have welcomed in my home on several occasions. Our children played together almost everyday. We had even went out as couples for dinner. So, my husbands side of the story is...she started by texting him about random things and then the texts/emails turned into dirty messages. My husband said at the time it was exciting. He knew it was wrong but he couldn't control himself. This all started in November. First with dirty texts/emails, then dirty pictures were exchanged. All of this went on while he was at work or I was at work. She stopped by our house on 2 occasions where my husband said she propositioned him for sex, he said he declined until the 3 time she came by. After having sex, he said he felt ashamed. But he also said they continued with the dirty emails. meh says he was disgusted by her but couldn't control himself. He tells me that there was nothing wrong/missing in our relationship and he will do whatever it takes to make this work. We have been together for 4 years and married 8 months. We don't have any children together, but I have 2 from a previous relationship. They think very highly of him and love him very much. For now, I am staying in the same house, trying to make it as normal for my kids as a possibly can. I am just so lost, I feel like I have lost my best friend. In our relationship, we rarely fought, always laughed and showed affection towards each other. We have an appointmen this week to see a therapist together. I'm not sure if that is the right decision or not. Please help!!