Have any of you read and used Parenting with Love and Logic?  It's a good book.  I read it at this time last year, and I am reading it again to get refreshed on the techniques.  I love that it respects the child and helps him/her learn to be responsible for his/her choices and actions.  There are aspects of it (specific suggestions in the book) that I would never use, but for the most part, I like the approach and appreciate that helps parents teach without yelling and belittling.