I've been dating a guy for about eight months. We're both divorced, each have kids, work, etc. He has his kids every other week, while I have mine two evenigs a week and every other Sat-Sun. I usually stay at his house when he doesn't have his kids. I've been doing that for months, and now all of a sudden it's this huge issue. (A few weeks ago I moved from a friend's to my brother's house, because my friend was tired of my kids being there so much.) My bf was afraid that I was under the assumption that we were going to be living together. In no way did I assume that. Neither of us are ready for that. So now he's saying that he just wants us to be back to dating because we each need our own space. I get that. I can't be around someone 24/7 without wanting to run screaming sometimes, haha. But it just feels in a way like I'm unwanted. He's not seeing anyone else, so that doesn't cross my mind, but it's really hard for me to get into hanging out with him now because in the back of my mind, I'm like, "Is he just wanting me to leave yet?" type thing. Argh. I spent the night there last night, and was crabby the whole time, like I was feeling unwanted. It's a subject we've pretty much beat to death, so I'm not sure what's worth bringing up anymore, if anything.