My on and off again boyfriend moved in fully finally in December and while things are not easy when you combine houses and have children involved things are going good. So good he gave me a ring Saturday and the wedding is in April of 2014. We had already talked about it and set the date but we seem to like to do things backwards ..... My oldest is not thrilled with things but she is coming around.

Thanks to the internet I know my ex husband is in an assisted living place down in Florida. I had found out he almost died back in November and it wasn't to good but till I had a light bulb moment yesterday I wasn't sure what was up but yesterday I realized as a sexual offender he has to register were he lives so I looked it up. I didn't reconize the address so googled it and found out where he is. Thnkfully one abuser has been stopped. Not in the way I would have liked but at least he is no longer a threat to anyone!! I hope one day everyone can say the same thing.

How are things going for you? V and I are going away next weekend. No clue where we are going but that it ok I don't care just want to get away for a day or so, ok would love to run away for a month but that is not possible so a day will work =)