Well I haven’t posted here is quite some time, I got some really great advice and have putting that advice to use with great results. However, now I quite worried about a friend of mine who appears to be quite enamored with a man she just met. It is in my nature to be quite skeptical especially considering the length of time they have know each other and some of the things that he says.

First, they meet on a dating website (she’s 35 and he’s 45 ) and after exchanging IM messages for about a week they finally decided to meet at a local bar for drinks or what he called a “chemistry check”. Everything seems to have gone well because he is already expressing to her that he misses her, and how he can't stop thinking about her. He also said that after chatting with her he had deleted his dating profile.  

She happened to share one of his message with me but I didn’t know how to advise her. He said and I quote “I believe that Fate brought you and I together. I thought I knew somewhat what I needed, but I wasn't sure exactly what. I had doubts as to whether I was moving down the right path looking for a significant other. After a very short time with you, though, I knew exactly who I needed. I am 100% confident that you are the right path for me!” I understand love (or maybe lust) at first sight, but do men really fall this hard this fast or does this seem a bit desperate.