First time here. I just found out over this past weekend that my husband of 13 years has been engaging in a sexting relationship with a former subordinate. He seems to be saying and doing the right things but I am so torn because I just can't believe him. I asked him if he texted her while I was there and he said no. Well the text string that got him busted was done while we were at a party and I was in the other room! At first I thought we could weather this we have been through a lot and I do love him but on reflecting I just am not sure (he actually had a trip out of town the morning after he was caught so he isn't here and I can think) that I will ever trust again.
Is anyone dealing with the texting but no physical contact? I know if she had been available to him it would have been physical.