Hello, Where are the board guidelines? There used to be posted a guideline for each board. This was especially helpful for the betrayed spouses support where the posters come for 'support'. Now it is no where to be found and that 'support' isn't always reflected in the posts. I used to be cl of that board before all of the changes to IV. I find it sad that so many people who were able to offer support to the newbies (because they were at one point in their shoes) have gone away due to IV changes. Who is the cm for betrayed spouses support? Can this cm be directly pm'd or contacted. I have even had other posters send me pm's voicing their concern and saying they are not coming back but no one seems to know who to talk to.