I know that it seems very biased, but I have always been amazed at how well my oldest has always behaved. Never throwing fits, whining, or crying when told she couldn't do/have something, and always doing what she's told. But lately all of that has changed. At first it was just with me and her father, she would whine and throw tatrums if we told her to go do something, then it escelated to screaming and even sometimes hitting. Now she is doing it with other members of our family as well. Most weekends she gets to go to her Yaiyai's house to have sleep overs, but last weekend she was brought home after dinner because she was behaving so poorly. Is this just something that happens at four? Is it a late rebeliion because of the "new" baby?( I put new in quotations because she's six months old) I am at a loss. We are trying to stay calm and not lose our tempers with her, but it is getting hard and stressing us out to the point where my husband and I have arguments over almost nothing. HELP!!!!!