I am 29 years old and me and my fiance have been dating for almost 3 years. We have never had sex. It will be our first time, but I think I may have a problem. That problem is when I was dating my ex, we were playing around (we did not have sex) and I think he may have broken my hymen. I was wearing underwear and so was he so I think it was pretty weird. So I guess my question is, what am I suppose to say when we have sex for the first time and I do not bleed? I never had sex before ever (skin on skin) so I don't want him to think I lied to him. When my hymen did break, it didn't bleed that much, so would I bleed again?
Let me add some more details, *if* it did break, how would I know, would I know? It was very foolish of me to do that back then. My finace says that I am pretty tight down there, so could it not be broken and could it just have torn a little bit?