I have known this person for several years. Every time she goes through a divorce, she needs help moving her stuff. I helped her move a few months ago, then I got very sick and had to go into the hospital for surgery. She kept asking me to keep helping her move, because it was taking her so long to get all her things out. She had some other people come over to help, but because its a 6 bedroom home there is tons of stuff to be moved out SO its taking her months. Even after I got out of the hospital after my surgery, she was emailing me and begging me to come over & help her move, even though she knew how sick I was. Its been a month since the operation and now she wants more help. She never offered to help me when I was recovering from my surgery, so what is a polite way to get this point across? I really still don't feel like doing lots of work helping someone get their stuff moved. She said she just needs help organizing her things and insisted she did not want me to pick up anything heavy. I still feel its inconsiderate, given what I've been through and how she never helpd me with anything.