My husband and I have been married for many years. We never spend any time together. We have kids and are busy with all their activities and both work. DH also works all the time (his choice). We rarely if ever go anywhere together and when we do we have nothing to say. DH has never been a big talker but he never shares anything with me about his day, people he knows etc. and when he does say anything its like pulling teeth to get more information. We went out for lunch a few months ago and it was a disaster. He didn't even try to make conversation and spent the majority of the time checking his phone for messages. I am tired of trying to make conversation. I have mentioned that we need to spend more time together and that he needs to talk more. He will then take me out but we won't go out again until maybe 6 months later. Please don't suggest counselling because he won't go. In a week I think all combined we spend about 15 minutes talking. In the evening he comes home and watches tv and I read. He barely says anything. Has anyone else experienced this?